I completely understand where you’re coming from — the idea of having someone you love in the room to capture or support your birth is appealing. And yes, your partner or midwife could take photos, film, or provide support. But there’s something I’ve learned over the years: birth is intense, emotional, and unpredictable, and everyone in the room has a role.
If your focus is photography or videography, your partner or midwife’s attention needs to be on you — helping you feel safe, held, and supported. Asking them to step away to take photos or videos can take them out of those most important moments. And even if they do manage a snapshot, capturing the story of birth with emotion, light, timing, and detail takes skill and experience — which is what I bring.
If you’re looking for doula support, the same principle applies. Your partner’s role is to support you in their own personal, emotional way, and your midwife’s role is to provide medical care and guidance, reporting to the hospital as needed. My role as a doula is to support you — the birthing parent — in whatever way you need, which sometimes means guiding or supporting your partner so they can be present and helpful in the ways that matter most to you. I respond intuitively to the dynamics in the room, enhancing the support you receive while always keeping your needs at the centre.
Ultimately, whether you’re hiring me for photography, videography, doula support, or any combination, my goal is the same: to honour your story, capture the moments that matter, and support you fully — so that everyone in the room can focus on what’s most important: you, your baby, and your experience. Being present, trained, and attentive allows your memories to be preserved beautifully and your birth to feel fully held — all without asking your loved ones to step away from their most important role: simply being there with you.